Yourself

It is true. You should thank those who say 'No' to you, for they only teach you how to do it yourself.

Being conditioned to think you always have someone to help you out does more harm than good. It doesn't only weaken your cerebral capacity to think, diminish your creativity but it also ensures the inferiority complex.

I reached out a reckoned force on Twitter for an answer to a question that has bothered me. Waited for days but got no reply from him to the reason best known to him.

I know the hard feeling and worrying about it won't provide me the needed answers, thus I quickly form a partnership with the search engine. Our partnership was wow. Got more than what I expected/wanted. I was thought struck and said to myself, even if the Twitter guy had answered my question, he could not have given a more detailed answer than what my online pal did.

But you will wonder, why I didn't use the search engine in the first place; this leads to another harm of depending too much on people, which is quick fixes. You will always desire superficial and quick answers from someone other than searching for it yourself to know in detail. Unfortunately, quick fixes engender laziness.

Always be on alert to try to do things yourself. No one could have possibly done everything by oneself, two heads will always be better than one but ensure you kick start that thing before the involvement of others. That will show your level of commitment and preparation geared towards its success.